Navigating Finances With Adult Children
In this episode of From the Orange Couch, father-and-son financial advisors Robert W. Tull, Jr., CFP®, President & CEO, and Phil Tull, CFP®, Wealth Advisor sit down for an honest conversation about the challenge parents face when adult children ask for financial help. Drawing on their unique perspectives working with both retirees and younger generations, they discuss how parents can balance love and generosity with the need to protect their own retirement security. Together, they explore the difference between helping and enabling, the importance of securing your own financial “oxygen mask” first, and how a thoughtful financial plan can provide clarity and confidence when navigating family decisions.
Key questions this episode helps answer:
- How can parents determine whether helping an adult child is generous or financially risky?
- What future expenses and financial needs do parents often underestimate when making these decisions?
- How can you distinguish between providing support and enabling poor financial habits?
- What role do incentives, personal responsibility, and financial independence play in helping adult children?
- How can surviving spouses handle financial pressure from adult children while protecting their own retirement security?
- What practical steps should parents take before giving money to an adult child, and how can a financial advisor help guide the conversation?
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